#2 - I wrote a rather longer sentence, originally, and decided that understatement was the better course, there. ;) Seriously, though, some of my coworkers, who I like and enjoy hanging with, have started telling me the lurid details of sexual escapades the moment I start to try to explain polyamory. And I'm left thinking, "I really must not have made my particular position all that clear or they wouldn't be going there..." And some of them it's a little distracting knowing they've done stuff like that. Especially when they're such innocent looking boys.