I'm not hot shit in a wineglass, more curried goat in a paper cup

It is heartbreaking - but oh, your Mom, ow! Sounds as though she's at a much worse state than he is so far.:( I could visit more often, but not a lot because it takes at least two hours to make it up there. Eor suggests I should start writing him letters every week, because at least that would be something he could take out, re-read, and absorb at his own pace. I think I should try. It would do me good, anyhow, composing. (I don't know how Eor does it, but he writes his Mom every week like clockwork.)